Covering disgrace is one of the teachings of Islam that shows how this religion prioritizes noble morals, compassion, and beauty in human relations. In our daily lives, we may unintentionally find out about other people’s shortcomings or mistakes. In such a situation, Islam teaches us to cover up the disgrace rather than spreading it.
But what exactly does it mean to cover up disgrace, and how can it be applied in life? This article will explore the concept of covering disgrace in Islam, its virtues, and practical steps to practicing it.
What is covering a Fault?
In Arabic, aib means a shortcoming, defect, or something that one does not want others to know about. Covering a disgrace means keeping one’s secrets or shortcomings from spreading or becoming the subject of conversation.
Allah SWT commands Muslims to maintain the honor and dignity of others by not revealing their disgrace. In a hadith, the Prophet Muhammad said:
“Whoever covers the disgrace of a Muslim, Allah will cover his disgrace in this world and in the Hereafter.” (HR Muslim)
This Hadith shows that covering a disgrace is a form of compassion, which not only gives peace to others but also brings great rewards to the one who does it.
Why is covering up a fault important?
- Preserving the Honor of Others
Every human being has honor that must be preserved. Revealing someone’s disgrace can damage their self-esteem and create enmity. - Avoiding Slander and Hostility
Talking about other people’s shortcomings often leads to slander and unnecessary conflict. By covering our shame, we maintain harmonious relationships. - Getting Protection from Allah
As explained in the hadith, Allah will cover our disgrace in this world and the next if we cover the disgrace of others. - Reflecting Noble Character
Covering disgrace is a form of noble character that reflects a true Muslim.
How to Cover Up Disgrace in Daily Life
1. Not Talking about Other People’s Flaws
Avoid discussing one’s faults or shortcomings with others, either directly or indirectly. This also applies to social media.
2. Advise Wisely
If you know someone’s faults, give them advice privately in a kind and compassionate way. Don’t embarrass them in public.
3. Keep the Secrets Given
If someone tells you about their problems or shortcomings, consider it a trust. Do not share it with others.
4. Avoid Ghibah (Backbiting)
Allah SWT prohibits gossiping, as mentioned in the Qur’an:
“And do not backbite one another. Would any of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Then surely you would be disgusted with him.” (QS. Al-Hujurat: 12)
Gossiping not only exposes the disgrace of others, but also brings about a great sin.
Read also: Covering Other People’s Disgrace, Avoiding the Sin of Ghibah
5. Be a Cover, Not a Spreader
If you know someone’s disgrace, be like a curtain that protects them, not like a mirror that reflects their shortcomings to others.
The Virtue of Covering a Fault
- Loved by Allah SWT
Allah loves those who maintain the honor of their fellow man. By covering disgrace, we show love and respect to His creation. - Given Glory in the Hereafter
According to the hadith, Allah will cover our disgrace in the hereafter if we cover the disgrace of others in the world. - Creates a Harmonious Environment
Covering disgrace helps create healthy social relationships, without fear of humiliation or slander.
The Messenger of Allah (SAW) was a prime example of covering up disgrace. In many instances, he showed compassion to people who made mistakes by advising them privately and not shaming them in public. One example that is often recounted is when the Prophet SAW covered the disgrace of a woman who made a big mistake and only gave advice with gentleness.
In the age of technology, the concept of covering shame is becoming increasingly relevant. Many people unknowingly expose the shame of others through social media, whether through posts, comments, or even sharing personal information without permission. To avoid this:
- Do not share other people’s personal information without permission.
- Think about the impact of each post before sharing it.
- If you see content that exposes other people’s shame, report it or ignore it, don’t participate in spreading it.
Covering disgrace is a form of kindness that every Muslim can do to protect the honor of others. May we always be able to protect our disgrace and not spread other people’s disgrace just for the sake of mudharat.
